有时候咱们总是把怒火给调成颜料,结果呢,世界就变得像油画一样乱糟糟的。

有时候咱们总是把怒火给调成颜料,结果呢,世界就变得像油画一样乱糟糟的。“咱说Rick啊,他过去可是个‘见啥怼啥’的小火山。” 妈妈给了他一块画布和颜料,告诉他,“把怒火画出来吧。” 刚开始Rick还是有点不情愿,可是看着妈妈软磨硬泡,也就勉强动手了。他画了撕、撕了画,结果就是一堆“怒火原稿”。他抱着这些画找妈妈说,“妈你看啊,第一幅是那群小孩秀新衣,其实不是嘲笑我穷。第二幅是老师训我,因为我上课捣乱了。第三幅是同学让我改态度,他其实是真心想帮我。” 妈妈听了之后把画摊开成一圈说,“你是不是只看到颜色,忘了问为什么呢?” Rick被问得一愣一愣的,“原来愤怒跟被误解之间就差一次深呼吸啊。” 妈妈告诉Rick三步把怒火调成颜料:先深呼吸两次给情绪一个冷却间隔;再带着画面去问别人为什么这么做;最后把对话收获重新画成理解而不是继续渲染愤怒。Rick听了就照做了。结果呢,“他发现当怒火落地成画的时候世界就不再全是刺眼的红了。” 他开始主动跟同学打招呼,笑容比颜料还多彩。Rick听了妈妈的话后终于明白了一件事:“All the people you were angry at did nothing wrong.” 其实呢咱们都一样啊,“Whenever you feel bad about something”,与其生气不如拿笔画出来吧。“Though not that happy”,给自己一个机会试试看呗。“They all make me so angry”,这事儿别一个人扛着。“Rick took his mom’s advice”,现在他也学会冷静下来去理解原因了。“Try to understand why”,“Calming down”,“Instead of getting angry”,“Causing trouble in class”,“Showing off their good clothes”,“Being poor”,“Laughed at you”,“Help you correct your mistakes”,“Take a deep breath”,“A couple of”,这些词和短语虽然看着多但其实不难记住哦。你还在等什么呢?今晚回家赶紧找张纸或者画布把那些小火苗给画出来吧。“Canvas”,“Create”,“Attitude”,“Explain”,“Scold”,这些词也是经常用得到的呢。“Angry at everything around him”,咱们都是一样的人嘛。“What is the difference between painting and drawing?”这事儿其实很简单啊。“Whenever you feel bad about something”,“Paint it instead of getting angry”,“Don’t get angry”,“Give it a try”,“Make mistakes”,“Correct your mistakes”,“Take a deep breath”,“A couple of”,“Don’t laugh at you”,“Don’t be poor”,“Don’t cause trouble”,“Instead of”,“Calm down”,“Try to understand why”,“Show off their good clothes”,“Laughed at you for being poor”,“Caused trouble in class”,“Helped you correct your mistakes”,“Took a deep breath”,“A couple of”,这些词和短语都是咱们日常交流中会用到的哦。你还在等什么呢?赶紧动手画起来吧!